By today’s worldly standards you are considered poor if:
1. The family only has one income
2. There is only one car per family
3. There is only one bathroom and toilet per house
4. Your house doesn’t have a bedroom per person
5. Your house doesn’t have garage space for each car
6. And woe, woe, woe, if you don’t even have a garage!
7. You don’t have a theatre room, rumpus room or den
You are considered deprived and underprivileged if:
1. You don’t have a TV in your room
2. You don’t have a computer
3. You don’t have Internet connection
4. You don’t have a DS or Wii
5. You don’t have your own room
6. You don’t have your own mobile or cell phone
7. You don’t have designer jeans and shoes
And I am sure you can think of other things to add to the list! But really for all this affluence, is the world any happier? I don’t think so!
What about bygone days? What made it better whilst seeming to be hard?
1. In bygone days the average family had one income and one car
2. Houses had one bathroom
3. Children played in the street
4. Boys wore trousers with patches at the knees
5. Money was in short supply and thrift was practiced
6. Creative homemakers used leftovers
7. Families sat together watching the one TV set in the home
Mother was always home and enjoyed looking after her family and homemaking was considered honourable. Home cooked meals (often with left-overs) were the norm and dining out and take away was for an occasion.
Father went to work and enjoyed coming home to a meal on the table and a read of the paper and wasn’t expected to help with the chores after a gruelling day in a factory or office for a meagre wage.
Children were fed and bathed and put to bed at a reasonable hour and Mother would sit and knit or practice some creative craft that today is slowly dying. They would sit and enjoy a companionable moment together before retiring around 10.
For all our advancements in choices of life styles and extra incomes and possessions, we aren’t any happier than then. For then families had time for each other and marriages were stronger and memories were fonder.
So how do we fix the problem? The answer is not hard at all: it’s time to go back to the simple life.
Author unknownFather went to work and enjoyed coming home to a meal on the table and a read of the paper and wasn’t expected to help with the chores after a gruelling day in a factory or office for a meagre wage.
Children were fed and bathed and put to bed at a reasonable hour and Mother would sit and knit or practice some creative craft that today is slowly dying. They would sit and enjoy a companionable moment together before retiring around 10.
For all our advancements in choices of life styles and extra incomes and possessions, we aren’t any happier than then. For then families had time for each other and marriages were stronger and memories were fonder.
So how do we fix the problem? The answer is not hard at all: it’s time to go back to the simple life.
“Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, [therewith] to be content”. Philippians 4:11
Trying to keep life as simple as possible. Trying to make happy memories for my children and grandchildren as I have of my golden childhood!
ReplyDeleteSimplicity is really the only way to live that will give us enough of our needs, but free us from the tyranny our possessions demand for their upkeep. Then we can make golden childhood memories for our children and their children, because we will be home and have time for them!
DeleteOur family listened to an "Adventures in Odyssey" a few years ago that included the line: "The more you possess, the more your possessions possess you."
DeleteThank you for reminding me of that truth. My husband and I are often amazed at how quickly the "stuff" in our home piles up creating mess and chaos that takes time to undo. Since we don't buy much of anything other than food and toilet paper, how does that happen? Generous grandparents are part of it, but even they have backed off in the gift department for the past few years. Time to purge in a BIG way, I'm considering limiting each child to 3 toys each. They already have less than their friends, but the caretaking is overwhelming to us all.
Miss Erin, a lot of mothers cull their childrens' toys and then bring a few out at a time on a cyclic basis.... the kiddies never get bored with them.... I am glad you found my blog! Welcome and blessings to you!
DeleteI totally agree. I am going through the "I can't believe you live like this" right now from my mother in law. The "Go out and get a job". We have given up a lot of stuff over the years to live the life we do but we still have so much more than most of the world that I sometimes still feel guilty for all we do have. Glad I found your blog.
ReplyDeleteIt is so difficult when family do not understand our life choices and beliefs. All you can do to keep standing is to put on the armour spoken of in Ephesians daily to keep standing. Not easy I know. Welcome to my blog, Jeanna! Blessings!
DeleteI missed this one and so glad I found it just then. We may be a two income family - however we only have the one car, the one bathroom and no theatre room or even a family room (the lounge is just fine) - I like my house, its not huge, cosy I like to say. And we don't go on big holidays - intact most of my trips away are to Adelaide to visit my parents!!
ReplyDeleteMy son and I have started to venture into second hand stores and i am amazed at what we fine - I am on a very good income, but never the less it doesn't mean I need to buy new - I love to hunt for treasures and see what I can find (recycling!) I even went through my pantry today to use up some of my canned food as I have decided to buy less of the commercial "stuff" (not that we eat that much) and this winter we will be eating lots of legumes and veggies - basic healthy foods. Less salt, more filling and tastes way better.
I have been teaching my son this - be willing to live within your means and so far he is doing very well.
Joluise, I think you are demonstrating good stewardship in your possessions and finances and good mothering in teaching your son these important things! Blessings!
DeleteI found it interesting when I learned that the word "consumer" actually had a bad connotation back in the 40's. Today, society considers that a good thing. Times truly do change and simple truly is a good thing. Thanks for this post.
ReplyDeleteTerri, what did it mean back then? Things are changing for sure! Blessings!
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